Talks

  • A Man's Deepest Bliss



    Advanced Lovemaking: Giving Bliss Beyond Skill



    Aligning with Love: Sex, Wealth, and Worship



    At Your Edge



    Beyond Success and Suicide PLUS Why Men Crave Nothingness



    Bingo - The Practice of Boundless Love



    Bondage, Boundaries, and The Rolling Stones



    Buddhism, Blowjobs, and Chocolate



    Clarifying Consciousness and Cultivating Ecstasy



    Communication, Yearning, and Purpose



    Craving Nothingness, Wanting Fullness, Celebrating Nowness



    Cultivating True Love, Partnership, and Purpose




    Emotional Chaos and Authentic Love How to Help Your Man Navigate Your Heart



    Enlightenment, Marriage, and the Dark Side



    Erotic Love and Feminine Bliss




    Finding Love and Sex Among Vikings, Boy Toys, and Superior Women



    For the Love of Time, Space and Sex



    Full-Spectrum Sexual Devotion




    His Freedom, Her Love



    Intimacy to Ecstasy



    Kinks, Consciousness, and the Plumber​



    Live in Boulder 2016 - Part I



    Live in Boulder 2016 - Part II




    Live in Boulder 2016 - Part III



    Live in San Francisco 2016 - Part I



    Live in San Francisco 2016 - Part II



    Live in San Francisco 2016 - Part III



    Living Dialogs with Duncan Campbell




    Living Sacred Intimacy - Part I



    Living Sacred Intimacy - Part II



    Love, Devotion, and Flowery Combat



    Love, Fear, Trust, and Depth



    Nothing Is Missing




    Offer Your Sex from Shallow to Deep



    Opening as Love and Nothingness



    Opening Spirituality and Sexually




    Primary Emotion and Deep Purpose



    Q&A at Breitenbush 1999



    Realms of Love and Substance



    Rested Deeper than Habit



    Rhythms of Revelation: Jazz, Jesus, and James Bond



    Speech, Kinks, Truth, Breath and Art




    Spirituality Beyond Self-Improvement



    Stages and Revelations



    The Free Man Vol 1



    The Love that Washes Through Patterns



    The Nuts and Bolts of Spiritual Intimacy - I




    The Nuts and Bolts of Spiritual Intimacy - II



    The Play of Masculine and Feminine



    The Shiva and Shakti Scales

    The Three Stages of Life



    The Yoga of Deep Passion




    The Third Stage: Making Love Beyond Sharing Needs



    Third-Stage Love



    Trusting Larger than Yourself


    Under The Surface: Deeper Lovemaking

     

     

  • Total Length: 1hr 26mins
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    Track titles:

    1. Conscious Emotions
    2. Is Your Man a Beautiful Wobbler?
    3. Soft-bodied Men, Authenticity, and Sexual Reciprocity
    4. Deep Sexiness is Responsive and Never Enough
    5. Lovemaking as Conscious Dance
    6. Practicing Presence in the Gargoyle’s Den
    7. How to Bite Your Lover

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    Soft-bodied Men, Authenticity, and Sexual Reciprocity

  • Total Length: 1hr 02mins
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    Track titles:

    1. When Awareness on Awareness is More Interesting than She
    2. Practicing with a Woman to Surrender
    3. Turning Her on with Your Voice
    4. Attending to Your Thoughts as Your Woman
    5. Golf and Her Pleasure in Not Opening
    6. Do Art with Her Emotions
    7. Tracking Her Heart at the Edges of Darkness
    8. Worshipping the Goddess
    9. Sex Beyond Surface                                   

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    Tracking Her Heart At The Edges Of Darkness

  • Total Length: 1hr 21mins
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    Track titles:

    1. Growing In Love’s Duet
    2. Beyond Masculine and Feminine
    3. The Artful Play of Polarity
    4. Heart-Wisdom, Trauma, and Skill with Men
    5. How to Be Irresistible to a Deep Man
    6. Awakening His Presence with Your Pain
    7. Love is Effortless, Sex Requires Training
    8. You’re Serving or You’re Suffering
    9. Why Practice?
    10. Attention is Devotion
    11. Staying Conscious Through Layers of Ecstasy
    12. Your Problems Create Your Gifts

     

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    Your Problems Create Your Gifts

  • Total Length: 1hr 21mins
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    Track titles:

    1. Softening Cervix, Heart, and Throat
    2. It’s Never Enough
    3. What Makes Him Thrilling as a Lover
    4. Her Secret Delight in Flowery Combat
    5. Becoming Continuous with the Universe
    6. Love Him But Don’t Settle
    7. Drama, Conflict, and the Growth of Love

     

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    Love Him But Don’t Settle

     

  • Total Length: 1hr 26mins
    Format: mp3 download

    Track titles:

    1. What Do Men Feel?
    2. How to Love Her with Humor and Tears
    3. Gifting and Not Diminishing a Strong Woman
    4. The Erotics of Speech
    5. The Pleasure of Helplessness
    6. Stop Waiting for the Next Moment
    7. Outgrow Your Need to be Seen
    8. The Yoga of Full-Spectrum Sexual Flow

     

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  • Total Length: 58mins
    Format: mp3 download

    Track titles:

    1. The Zen of One Taste Meets the Dance of Love
    2. Getting Unstuck
    3. Melted by the Busboy, the Ecstasy of Surrender
    4. Being Ravished by Consciousness
    5. After Work, Do You Want a Wife or a Husband?
    6. Loving Free from the Past
    7. Being the Goddess He Can’t Ignore

     

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  • Noted interviewer Duncan Campbell and David Deida explore the philosophical and cultural context of Deida's work on the three developmental stages of individual and social evolution and how the universal masculine and feminine energies play out in the human realm through those stages.

    Part 1: 30:26
    Part 2: 30:13
    Part 3: 29:46
    Part 4: 29:29

    Year: 2000

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    Delivered in 4 half-hour tracks

  • Freedom, power, fear, money, sex, enlightenment, death, wisdom, excellence, challenge, transcendence, purpose--living at your edge is the masculine form of spiritual practice. In these recordings, David lays down in crystal clear terms what it takes to live a masculine life of integrity, authenticity, and depth.

    Part 1: 1:30:32
    Part 2: 1:02:23 Year: 1999

     

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  • In each of us is a masculine principle or force that is always searching for more freedom. And in each of us is a feminine principle or force that is always searching for more love. These two different expressions of our sexual core are each fundamental aspects of an understanding of spiritual growth as sexual beings.

    Track Length: 1:08:29

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  • This talk explores the specifically masculine and feminine aspects of spiritual growth and the play of masculine and feminine energies.

    Track Length: 1:12:47

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  • The infinite openness of no separation, or oneness, is the spiritual truth of every moment. Some of us (those more feminine in their core) open toward infinite oneness as love. Some (those more masculine in their core) open toward that same oneness as “nothingness”.

    Track Length: 1:02:23

     

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  • This talk explores a variety of topics from the neurotic "shells" of sexual energy that we all have covering our core sexual essence, to working with anger, the roots of romantic attraction, and the nature of all appearance as the moment-by-moment sexual union of consciousness (the masculine principle) and radiance (the feminine principle).

    Track Length: 1:25:20

     

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  • This talk explores the differences between communication modes for the masculine and feminine, as well as differences in communication and perception between the first, second, and third stages of human development.

    Track Length: 1:23:23
    Year: 2000

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  • This talk describes one of the core understandings of the third stage: that other people can feel where you are at and where you need to grow better than you can.

    Track Length: 1:13:05
    Year: 2000

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  • This recording introduces the three stages of life (and intimacy) that we all grow through.

    Track Length: 1:27:49

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  • Practices of love that transform those patterns of behavior which limit our intimacies, popping us through the patterns to the ecstasy of love-bliss that lies waiting on the other side.

    Track Length: 1:42:41
    Year: 2000

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  • Self improvement is a good thing, but all the self-mastery and personal growth in the world don’t add up to real spiritual openness. And neither does true spiritual openness depend on being a well adjusted, “successful” person.

    Track Length: 1:42:27
    Year: 2000

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  • Recognizing the deep source of who we are “behind” or “beneath” or “before” our habits and patterns is a primary foundation of spiritual practice.

    Track Length: 1:27:09
    Year: 2001

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  • This talk discusses the use of drugs and alcohol, sexuality, business, friendship, masculine and feminine spiritual practice, and other topics from the third stage perspective.

    Track Length: 1:14:08
    Year: 2000

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