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“Quite simply, the best sex manual in print, for the enlightened, the unenlightened, and everybody in between.”
Ken Wilber, author of A Brief History of Everything
“What a treasure! Singing with the joy and poetry of love, The Enlightened Sex Manual is just what its title promises: a very practical guide to the sexual expression of spirit that is the birthright of every man and woman. David Deida presents an inspiring vision made possible through this remarkable book. I want to give it to everyone I know!”
Jenny Wade PhDJenny Wade, Ph.D., author of Transcendent Sex

The Enlightened Sex Manual

Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover

In The Enlightened Sex Manual, David Deida presents a collection of skills for opening to the physical, emotional, and spiritual rewards of intimate embrace.

The secret to enlightenment and great sex is revealed to be one and the same in this groundbreaking manual for adventurous lovers. David Deida was trained for decades in the art of spiritual and sexual awakening. Now he presents the ultimate collection of skills for opening to the physical, emotional, and spiritual rewards of intimate embrace.

Direct, provocative, and never before offered to the public, The Enlightened Sex Manual teaches you how to transform simple “skin friction” into the depths and embodiment of ecstasy; how to develop sexual abilities as gifts of heart rapture and bodily surrender; how to achieve the principal types of orgasms–and all their varieties, and much more.

For men and women, singles and couples of every sexual orientation, The Enlightened Sex Manual¬†provides a complete program for sustaining “whole-body recognition of love’s light” in the wild play of sexuality.