Dear Lover

Dear Lover

A Woman’s Guide to Men, Sex, and Love’s
Deepeest Bliss

A Woman’s Guide to Men, Sex, and Love’s Deepest Bliss

 

Every woman knows the fairy tale: find the right man, give him what he wants and needs, and he’ll love you forever. But when the myth you’ve been asked to believe fails to deliver—when you sense you’ve been settling for far less than you know in your heart is possible—how do you attract and keep a man capable of meeting what you most passionately yearn for?

In Dear Lover, David Deida explores every aspect of the feminine practice of spiritual intimacy, from sexuality and lovemaking to family and career to emotions, trust, and commitment. Here is this internationally acclaimed writer’s invitation to practice love as a living art, as you discover how to pick the man of deep integrity who will satisfy the needs of your body, heart, and spirit, when to end a relationship and how to deal with the “him-shaped void” your absent man leaves behind, plus daily exercises to help you and your partner move from separation to openness in two-bodied devotional trust. Here is a trustworthy guide to the lasting fulfillment that comes from this blissful exchange, for the illumination of all.

 

Every woman knows the fairy tale: find the right man, give him what he wants and needs, and he’ll love you forever. But when the myth you’ve been asked to believe fails to deliver—when you sense you’ve been settling for far less than you know in your heart is possible—how do you attract and keep a man capable of meeting what you most passionately yearn for?

In Dear Lover, David Deida explores every aspect of the feminine practice of spiritual intimacy, from sexuality and lovemaking to family and career to emotions, trust, and commitment. Here is this internationally acclaimed writer’s invitation to practice love as a living art, as you discover how to pick the man of deep integrity who will satisfy the needs of your body, heart, and spirit, when to end a relationship and how to deal with the “him-shaped void” your absent man leaves behind, plus daily exercises to help you and your partner move from separation to openness in two-bodied devotional trust. Here is a trustworthy guide to the lasting fulfillment that comes from this blissful exchange, for the illumination of all.

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Table of Contents

  1. You Are Love
  2. Chocolate Love
  3. Yearning Is the Key to Love
  4. The Gift of Making Love
  5. Spiritual Sexiness
  6. Orgasmic Love
  7. Love and Fear
  8. Your Sexual Essence
  9. Your True Heart and Its Shells
  10. Offering or Betraying Your Heart
  11. The Two-Bodied Play of Love
  12. Loving Larger Than Fear
  13. Trusting Your Man to Open You
  14. You Attract Your Reciprocal
  15. Why Men Hold Back
  16. Your Force of Attraction
  17. Your Man Is Your Choice
  18. Expressing Pleasure and Hurt
  19. Masculine Insensitivity
  20. How to Stay Open
  21. Opening Beyond an Impasse
  22. Ending Relationships and the Him-Shaped Void
  23. Three Stages of Loving
  24. Love Is a Living Art
  25. Showing Your Heart’s Light in Public
  26. Choosing Abuse and Refusing Love
  27. Wanting to Be Opened
  28. A Summary of Trusting and Opening
  29. Goodbye

“As a woman, I’ve never felt so understood and validated. Finally, a clear and brilliant guide to unraveling the mystery of relationships.”

“The Way of the Superior Man lays out a challenge
before all men to fulfill their true purpose”

The Way of the Superior Man lays out a challenge before
all men to fulfill their true purpose and to be

authentically masculine. It will guide you on your
journeyto a successful and spiritually complete way of life.

I invite you to live in the moment, to love openly, and
to step up to the plate with this book in your hand.

Marci Shimoff, co-author of the New York Times bestseller
Chicken Soup for the Woman’s Soul

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Dear Lover

A Woman’s Guide to Men, Sex,
and Love’s Deepest Bliss

 

Every woman knows the fairy tale: find the right man, give him what he wants and needs, and he’ll love you forever. But when the myth you’ve been asked to believe fails to deliver—when you sense you’ve been settling for far less than you know in your heart is possible—how do you attract and keep a man capable of meeting what you most passionately yearn for?

In Dear Lover, David Deida explores every aspect of the feminine practice of spiritual intimacy, from sexuality and lovemaking to family and career to emotions, trust, and commitment. Here is this internationally acclaimed writer’s invitation to practice love as a living art, as you discover how to pick the man of deep integrity who will satisfy the needs of your body, heart, and spirit, when to end a relationship and how to deal with the “him-shaped void” your absent man leaves behind, plus daily exercises to help you and your partner move from separation to openness in two-bodied devotional trust. Here is a trustworthy guide to the lasting fulfillment that comes from this blissful exchange, for the illumination of all.

Table of Contents

  1. You Are Love
  2. Chocolate Love
  3. Yearning Is the Key to Love
  4. The Gift of Making Love
  5. Spiritual Sexiness
  6. Orgasmic Love
  7. Love and Fear
  8. Your Sexual Essence
  9. Your True Heart and Its Shells
  10. Offering or Betraying Your Heart
  11. The Two-Bodied Play of Love
  12. Loving Larger Than Fear
  13. Trusting Your Man to Open You
  14. You Attract Your Reciprocal
  15. Why Men Hold Back
  16. Your Force of Attraction
  17. Your Man Is Your Choice
  18. Expressing Pleasure and Hurt
  19. Masculine Insensitivity
  20. How to Stay Open
  21. Opening Beyond an Impasse
  22. Ending Relationships and the Him-Shaped Void
  23. Three Stages of Loving
  24. Love Is a Living Art
  25. Showing Your Heart’s Light in Public
  26. Choosing Abuse and Refusing Love
  27. Wanting to Be Opened
  28. A Summary of Trusting and Opening
  29. Goodbye

David Deida
David Deida
Dear Lover: A Women’s Guide to Men, Sex, and Love’s Deepest Bliss
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As a woman, I’ve never felt so understood and validated.
Finally, a clear and brilliant guide to unraveling
the mystery of relationships.”

“As a woman, I’ve never felt so understood and validated. Finally, a clear and brilliant guide to unraveling the mystery of relationships.”

Marci Shimoff, co-author of the
New York Times bestseller
Chicken Soup for the Woman’s Soul

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Get a Free Chapter

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