

Dear Lover
Love’s Deepeest Bliss
Dear Lover
and Love’s Deepeest Bliss
Every woman knows the fairy tale: find the right man, give him what he wants and needs, and he’ll love you forever. But when the myth you’ve been asked to believe fails to deliver—when you sense you’ve been settling for far less than you know in your heart is possible—how do you attract and keep a man capable of meeting what you most passionately yearn for?
In Dear Lover, David Deida explores every aspect of the feminine practice of spiritual intimacy, from sexuality and lovemaking to family and career to emotions, trust, and commitment. Here is this internationally acclaimed writer’s invitation to practice love as a living art, as you discover how to pick the man of deep integrity who will satisfy the needs of your body, heart, and spirit, when to end a relationship and how to deal with the “him-shaped void” your absent man leaves behind, plus daily exercises to help you and your partner move from separation to openness in two-bodied devotional trust. Here is a trustworthy guide to the lasting fulfillment that comes from this blissful exchange, for the illumination of all.
Every woman knows the fairy tale: find the right man, give him what he wants and needs, and he’ll love you forever. But when the myth you’ve been asked to believe fails to deliver—when you sense you’ve been settling for far less than you know in your heart is possible—how do you attract and keep a man capable of meeting what you most passionately yearn for?
In Dear Lover, David Deida explores every aspect of the feminine practice of spiritual intimacy, from sexuality and lovemaking to family and career to emotions, trust, and commitment. Here is this internationally acclaimed writer’s invitation to practice love as a living art, as you discover how to pick the man of deep integrity who will satisfy the needs of your body, heart, and spirit, when to end a relationship and how to deal with the “him-shaped void” your absent man leaves behind, plus daily exercises to help you and your partner move from separation to openness in two-bodied devotional trust. Here is a trustworthy guide to the lasting fulfillment that comes from this blissful exchange, for the illumination of all.
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“As a woman, I’ve never felt so understood and validated. Finally, a clear and brilliant guide to unraveling the mystery of relationships.”
Marci Shimoff, co-author of the New York Times bestseller
Chicken Soup for the Woman’s Soul

Dear Lover
A Woman’s Guide to Men,
Sex, and Love’s Deepeest Bliss
You are deeper than your life shows, and you know it. You are more loving than your relationships allow, more brilliant than your career suggests. In your secret depth of being, you are infinite, creative, boundless, and utterly unable to press your full glory into the world. Or so it seems. In Blue Truth, David Deida presents a treasury of skills and insights for uncovering and offering your true heart of purpose, passion, and unquenchable love.
In part one, Deida shows you how to open as the entirety of the moment, feeling as deep inside and as far outside as you can, for as long as now opens. In part two, he reveals how to walk this path in the wilderness of intimate relationship, illuminating the art and play of sexual gifting, including how to expertly navigate the tangle of anger, jealousy, fear, lust, and much, much more.
In June 2006, Blue Truth was named by Spirituality & Health magazine as one of the Best Spiritual Books of 2005, in the Personal Growth category.
Every woman knows the fairy tale: find the right man, give him what he wants and needs, and he’ll love you forever. But when the myth you’ve been asked to believe fails to deliver—when you sense you’ve been settling for far less than you know in your heart is possible—how do you attract and keep a man capable of meeting what you most passionately yearn for?
In Dear Lover, David Deida explores every aspect of the feminine practice of spiritual intimacy, from sexuality and lovemaking to family and career to emotions, trust, and commitment. Here is this internationally acclaimed writer’s invitation to practice love as a living art, as you discover how to pick the man of deep integrity who will satisfy the needs of your body, heart, and spirit, when to end a relationship and how to deal with the “him-shaped void” your absent man leaves behind, plus daily exercises to help you and your partner move from separation to openness in two-bodied devotional trust. Here is a trustworthy guide to the lasting fulfillment that comes from this blissful exchange, for the illumination of all.
Table of Contents
“As a woman, I’ve never felt so understood and validated. Finally, a clear and brilliant guide to unraveling the mystery of relationships.”
Marci Shimoff, co-author of the
New York Times bestseller
Chicken Soup for the Woman’s Soul
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