It’s a Guy Thing

An Owner’s Manual for Women

It’s a Guy Thing

An Owner’s Manual for Women

In It’s a Guy Thing, David Deida answers over 150 of women’s most asked questions about men, intimacy, and spirituality.

This invaluable contribution toward increased understanding between the sexes includes such material as:

  • Why are men so mechanical during sex?
  • Why do men gawk when an attractive woman walks by?
  • Why do men balk at commitment?
  • What makes a perfect partner?

In It’s a Guy Thing, David Deida answers over 150 of women’s most asked questions about men, intimacy, and spirituality.

This invaluable contribution toward increased understanding between the sexes includes such material as:

  • Why are men so mechanical during sex?
  • Why do men gawk when an attractive woman walks by?
  • Why do men balk at commitment?
  • What makes a perfect partner?

This week’s free chapter is:
Chapter 5. Culture Is the Enemy of Sex

Next chapter available on Wednesday, March 18 

Click Here to View Chapter

This week’s free chapter is:
Chapter 5. Culture Is the Enemy of Sex

Next chapter available on Wednesday, March 18 

Click Here to View Chapter

Buy Your Copy Now

Table of Contents

Why Are Men So Difficult?

Why Is He So Rigid?

Why Doesn’t He Pay More Attention to Me?

Why Does His Work Seem More Important Than Me?

Why Isn’t He Aware of How He Hurts Me?

What Can I Do When He Seems So Burdened?

Why Is He So Obsessed with Perfection?

Why Do I Feel Him Rejecting Me So Often?

Why Can’t He Be with Me Emotionally?

Why Is He Afraid to Commit?

Why Can’t He Be More Vulnerable?

Can Geographical Places Have Sexual Characteristics?

Why Do Men and Women Shop So Differently?

Why Do We Fight So Much?

What Are the Essences of Masculine and Feminine?

What Do Soap Operas and Sex Movies Have in Common?

Why Does He Say I’m Too Emotional When He Seems So Rigid?

Why Can’t He Love Me When His Career Isn’t Going Well?

Why Does He Like to Go Places Without Me?

What Is Sexual Polarity?

Why Does My Career Turn Him Off?

Should I Tell Him About My Day?

Why Am I Attracted to Him One Moment and Repulsed the Next?

Aren’t Some Men Naturally More Feminine?

Must I Always Act Feminine If I Want to Be Sexy?

Why Do I Enjoy Having Many Men Friends?

How Does Housework Relate to Passion?

Isn’t It Better to Be Balanced Than All Masculine or All Feminine?

Why Are Men Afraid of Women?

Can a Man Be Strong and Also Feminine?

Why Don’t I Trust My Man When He Just “Hangs Out”?

Is Fairness Always Best?

Who Should Pay for Dinner?

Are Artists Always Feminine?

Do I Really Want a Masculine Man?

Why Is It So Difficult for Him to Honor Me As a Woman?

Why Does Our Intimacy Seem So Lifeless?

Why Has the Passion Gone Out of Our Relationship?

Can Spending Casual Time with Men Be Harmful to My Sexual Health?

How Has Our Culture Changed the Way Men Look at Themselves?

Is Feminine Energy Less Competent Than Masculine?

Why Do I Feel Silly Around My Lover?
How Can Men Strengthen Their Masculine and Women Strengthen Their Feminine?

Will We Ever Stop Hurting Each Other?

What Happened to the Juice?

What Does He Really Want from Me?

Should a Man Obey His Woman?

How Do I Attract a Strong Man?

Who Gets to Make the Decisions, Him or Me?

What Can Men and Women Learn from Each Other?

Why Do Men Balk at Commitment?

Why Is So Much Emphasis Placed on a Woman’s Attractiveness?

 

Why Do Men Always Blame Women?

Why Isn’t My Man More Self-Directed?

Why Do I Attract Lazy Men?

What Can I Do When His Sex Drive Suddenly Disappears?

Why Can’t He Express His Appreciation for Me?

How Can I Reach Him Without Making Him Angry?

Why Is He So Afraid of Getting Close?

Why Does Intimacy Seem Less Important to Him Than to Me?

Should I Just Accept the Fact That Men Are Selfish?

Why Can’t He Receive My Love?

What Should I Do When He Ignores Me?

How Can I Get Him to Express His Real Emotions About Other Women?

Shouldn’t Women Be Paid As Much As Men?

Why Does His Financial Irresponsibility Bother Me So Much?

Why Do We Always Fight About Money?

Why Doesn’t He Like to Talk About My Workday with Me?

What If I Am Better at Handling Our Finances Than He Is?

Why Are Men Often Hostile Toward Professional Women?

Does Working with Women Ruin My Man?

When Discussing Business, Why Do Men Like to Exclude Women?

How Serious Are Men’s Sexual Fantasies About Their Female Co-Workers?

Should I Support Myself Even If He Wants to Support Me?

How Do I Create Intimacy?

Why Can’t We Communicate?

How Can I Talk So He Understands Me?

Why Does He Think I’m Stupid?

Why Does He Criticize My Emotionality?

Is He Blind to How I’m Feeling?

“Deida brilliantly lays bare the hidden psychology of feminine and masculine and offers clear instructions for tapping into our deepest core and achieving true harmony through sexual intimacy.”

Miranda Shaw, PhD, Author of Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism

It’s a Guy Thing

An Owner’s Manual for Women

You are deeper than your life shows, and you know it. You are more loving than your relationships allow, more brilliant than your career suggests. In your secret depth of being, you are infinite, creative, boundless, and utterly unable to press your full glory into the world. Or so it seems. In Blue Truth, David Deida presents a treasury of skills and insights for uncovering and offering your true heart of purpose, passion, and unquenchable love.

In part one, Deida shows you how to open as the entirety of the moment, feeling as deep inside and as far outside as you can, for as long as now opens. In part two, he reveals how to walk this path in the wilderness of intimate relationship, illuminating the art and play of sexual gifting, including how to expertly navigate the tangle of anger, jealousy, fear, lust, and much, much more.

In June 2006, Blue Truth was named by Spirituality & Health magazine as one of the Best Spiritual Books of 2005, in the Personal Growth category.

In It’s a Guy Thing, David Deida answers over 150 of women’s most asked questions about men, intimacy, and spirituality.

This invaluable contribution toward increased understanding between the sexes includes such material as:

  • Why are men so mechanical during sex?
  • Why do men gawk when an attractive woman walks by?
  • Why do men balk at commitment?
  • What makes a perfect partner?

This week’s free chapter is:
Chapter 5. Culture Is the Enemy of Sex

Next chapter available on Wednesday, March 18 

Click Here to View Chapter

Buy Your Copy Now

Table of Contents

Why Are Men So Difficult?

Why Is He So Rigid?

Why Doesn’t He Pay More Attention to Me?

Why Does His Work Seem More Important Than Me?

Why Isn’t He Aware of How He Hurts Me?

What Can I Do When He Seems So Burdened?

Why Is He So Obsessed with Perfection?

Why Do I Feel Him Rejecting Me So Often?

Why Can’t He Be with Me Emotionally?

Why Is He Afraid to Commit?

Why Can’t He Be More Vulnerable?

Can Geographical Places Have Sexual Characteristics?

Why Do Men and Women Shop So Differently?

Why Do We Fight So Much?

What Are the Essences of Masculine and Feminine?

What Do Soap Operas and Sex Movies Have in Common?

Why Does He Say I’m Too Emotional When He Seems So Rigid?

Why Can’t He Love Me When His Career Isn’t Going Well?

Why Does He Like to Go Places Without Me?

What Is Sexual Polarity?

Why Does My Career Turn Him Off?

Should I Tell Him About My Day?

Why Am I Attracted to Him One Moment and Repulsed the Next?

Aren’t Some Men Naturally More Feminine?

Must I Always Act Feminine If I Want to Be Sexy?

Why Do I Enjoy Having Many Men Friends?

How Does Housework Relate to Passion?

Isn’t It Better to Be Balanced Than All Masculine or All Feminine?

Why Are Men Afraid of Women?

Can a Man Be Strong and Also Feminine?

Why Don’t I Trust My Man When He Just “Hangs Out”?

Is Fairness Always Best?

Who Should Pay for Dinner?

Are Artists Always Feminine?

Do I Really Want a Masculine Man?

Why Is It So Difficult for Him to Honor Me As a Woman?

Why Does Our Intimacy Seem So Lifeless?

Why Has the Passion Gone Out of Our Relationship?

Can Spending Casual Time with Men Be Harmful to My Sexual Health?

How Has Our Culture Changed the Way Men Look at Themselves?

Is Feminine Energy Less Competent Than Masculine?

Why Do I Feel Silly Around My Lover?
How Can Men Strengthen Their Masculine and Women Strengthen Their Feminine?

Will We Ever Stop Hurting Each Other?

What Happened to the Juice?

What Does He Really Want from Me?

Should a Man Obey His Woman?

How Do I Attract a Strong Man?

Who Gets to Make the Decisions, Him or Me?

What Can Men and Women Learn from Each Other?

Why Do Men Balk at Commitment?

Why Is So Much Emphasis Placed on a Woman’s Attractiveness?

Why Do Men Always Blame Women?

Why Isn’t My Man More Self-Directed?

Why Do I Attract Lazy Men?

What Can I Do When His Sex Drive Suddenly Disappears?

Why Can’t He Express His Appreciation for Me?

How Can I Reach Him Without Making Him Angry?

Why Is He So Afraid of Getting Close?

Why Does Intimacy Seem Less Important to Him Than to Me?

Should I Just Accept the Fact That Men Are Selfish?

Why Can’t He Receive My Love?

What Should I Do When He Ignores Me?

How Can I Get Him to Express His Real Emotions About Other Women?

Shouldn’t Women Be Paid As Much As Men?

Why Does His Financial Irresponsibility Bother Me So Much?

Why Do We Always Fight About Money?

Why Doesn’t He Like to Talk About My Workday with Me?

What If I Am Better at Handling Our Finances Than He Is?

Why Are Men Often Hostile Toward Professional Women?

Does Working with Women Ruin My Man?

When Discussing Business, Why Do Men Like to Exclude Women?

How Serious Are Men’s Sexual Fantasies About Their Female Co-Workers?

Should I Support Myself Even If He Wants to Support Me?

How Do I Create Intimacy?

Why Can’t We Communicate?

How Can I Talk So He Understands Me?

Why Does He Think I’m Stupid?

Why Does He Criticize My Emotionality?

Is He Blind to How I’m Feeling?

“Deida brilliantly lays bare the hidden psychology of feminine and masculine and offers clear instructions for tapping into our deepest core and achieving true harmony through sexual intimacy.”

Miranda Shaw, PhD,
Author of Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism

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